tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-903369978904506414.post3785722303441191855..comments2024-02-18T23:27:55.993-06:00Comments on the Madness of the Combat Medic: Forgivness is not easyThe Mad Medichttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16227573604389667896noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-903369978904506414.post-85782813109526160342012-04-12T19:12:03.332-05:002012-04-12T19:12:03.332-05:00Ahhh women....
You know they ain't that hard ...Ahhh women.... <br />You know they ain't that hard to understand, and to spot a break up coming is actually easy to do. Its all about understanding human nature, specifically male-female social dynamics. (that's a fancy term I put together :)<br /><br />Anywho when bitches come and leave is a factor of how the man is dealing with them. In other words, women emotionally/instinctively react to the man they are in front of. Hence the common expression: "Attraction isn't a choice". <br />-----> http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gGa9B5c6B10<br /><br />Therefore, seeking straight answers from a woman as to why she left you is an exercise in futility. You see, since women are reacting instinctively they cannot put their feelings into words.(It's hard for anyone to verbalize instinctive reactions or vibes) <br /><br />Now... understand this concept: To a woman, "sexual partner" and "friend" are NOT the same. That is why guys often end up in the "friend zone" while another dude (who can be a total asshole) is fucking her. <br /><br />How does this all come together? Simple:<br />-The girls who leave their men, and the girls who put men in the "friend zone" do so because those men cannot activate the womens' attraction switches. (and the attraction switches have to be activated constantly throughout the relationship. They are not a light switch that once you turn on you can walk away from.)<br /><br />There are 5 main attraction switches:<br />#1 Pre-selected by other women<br />#2 Leader of men <br />#3 Protector of friends and loved ones<br />#4 Willingness to emote/walk away<br />(check out Mystery Method for more info on these switches and other stuff)<br />#5 Not needing to be mommied <br />(I discovered #5 on my own)<br /><br />If you keep them activated the woman will love you forever, don't, and she will walk away.<br />--------------------------------<br />--------------------------------<br /><br />As for feeling down because they left and hurt you, all of that will go away the more you date other beautiful women. <br />-------------------------------<br />-------------------------------<br />Prospects.... those prospects you mentioned sound like bitches with attitudes and baggage. If you wanna bang a slut or 3 do so, they have their purpose. But don't keep that. <br /><br />To sort through bitches to find those worthy of keeping all you gotta do is to "qualify them". Here is some good tips on identifying and dealing with the different types of femmes:<br />https://heartiste.wordpress.com/2008/09/16/how-to-handle-femmes-fatales/<br />https://heartiste.wordpress.com/2008/09/17/how-to-handle-femmes-fatales-part-2a/<br />https://heartiste.wordpress.com/2008/09/18/how-to-handle-femmes-fatales-part-3/<br /><br />-------------------------------<br />-------------------------------<br />As for the just married chick.... again as you meet and date beautiful women you stop thinking about her. <br /><br />That's all I got on this post, playa'.Cholonoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-903369978904506414.post-63973095402257578552012-02-02T04:49:32.777-06:002012-02-02T04:49:32.777-06:00You've had a rough few years. Don't need ...You've had a rough few years. Don't need to give up but probably do need to sort out the issues a bit before giving it another go if you want to by then.Argenthttp://positiveentertainment.org/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-903369978904506414.post-84765920317137802532012-02-01T23:35:29.930-06:002012-02-01T23:35:29.930-06:00Well Argent, you kind of need to understand that t...Well Argent, you kind of need to understand that this is part of a larger pattern. I had a GF that left me in the middle of a deployment. I had another that i just couldn't connect to when i lost guys, and she wanted to have a life of her own. . . i also found out she was pregnant when I got back. Being in the WTB. . . well that was a nightmare, and I don't want to describe it here, but I lost really the love of my life at the time, because of my meds, and how insane I had become. The woman in the post, well after her I kind of gave up overall. it was a pattern far too often repeated.The Mad Medichttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16227573604389667896noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-903369978904506414.post-17787992886820694942012-02-01T21:41:19.502-06:002012-02-01T21:41:19.502-06:00I don't have the answers either, it looks a bi...I don't have the answers either, it looks a bit confusing. I think your feelings are quite understandable. <br /><br />I do see two things though.<br /><br />The article is heavily focused on the woman. But there is clearly more to your struggles than her. I hope you find the strength to at least deal with a few of these.<br /><br />The second thing very clear cut is that you are blaming all women for this woman's actions. Women are not all the same. If you keep that up you will have trust problems with woman and find dealing with them even outside relationships a struggle. Leave your feelings where they belong. If they are regarding the woman then leave them there.Argenthttp://positiveentertainment.org/noreply@blogger.com